LETTING GO & TRUSTING.

 Okay so I am pretty sure many of you can relate to this current issue I have come across with not only my own personal life but with some close friends as well.... The issue is T R U S T!  How can we forgive forget and move forward and put our trust into the next relationship? Not everyone is the same and we do not know how good of a person someone can be unless we give it a shot but how can you do that when you are hiding behind your wall and not letting one brick down to see what is on the other side? Conversation is great, personalities match, looks are there, but the fact that you must TRUST this person is kind of hard when you are looking for them to screw things up and do what everyone else does which is get up and walk away. How can you go from being beaten up verbally or physically to getting back into something new and not being afraid of what can happen?
We must learn to love and let go and not hold grudges but when you constantly find yourself back in the same spot how are you able to cope? We must learn to allow others in but not let others barge in and walk all over us. In order to get respect you must gain respect and respect starts at day *1* when you walk in to one another's lives. Easier said than done huh I understand but we can not just sit here alone sad and heartbroken due to our passed experiences. In order to be able to have that happy ending we must go through all the rough patches in life in order for the good things to come. If we do not go through the things that we have gone through we would not be the free spirited strong minded individuals that we turn out to be at the end.
We can not say everyone is the same when we are just choosing all of the same bad apples and not picking apples of a different type or from a different tree. When you are so accustomed to something its hard to just change it and accept the good but you must learn to walk an unknown path with the unknown person to see if it takes you to a place where you want to be. Opening up and allowing yourself to be loved is the hardest thing but knowing what you will allow and wont allow shall be the number one thing that crosses your mind going forward. Not repeating the same mistakes with different apples is what will teach us new life lessons. That one apple you didn't like might turn into the apple of your eye!

Learning and Letting go will have to be the one thing we must all learn to do.
Taking one brick off the wall at a time will be taking baby steps to what can be a bright future.
Tearing down that OLD apple tree and looking for a different one to pick from will be the next step.
Allowing others to show you who they really are and proving to you what they are capable of something different will have to be the part where we must learn to T R U S T others.

** No one will be able to love you the way you want if you have a pile of bricks or bad apples blocking the path to you. We must learn to Love and Let go of everything in which we have gone through in order to let the new things happen. **

Trust & Respect