When chaos arises and you feel like as if everything you do say or try and accomplish will only set you back a few feet behind than what? Knowing that you have no one to depend on but yourself has got to be the one thing you must learn to grasp and not let go. Feeling hopeless but yet knowing that you have to fight and can not give up. Seems like those who offer help only offer because they are trying to be nice but deep down inside they really do not want to offer you a helping hand. Those are the situations that leave you with tears escaping your eyes, your heart shattered in millions of small pieces, and just a overwhelming feeling of disbelief. The ones whom are supposed to be there for you offering you a helping hand, helping you get through the tough times, and jumping over those tall hurtles for you are the ones who will quickly back out and watch you do it alone hoping you bust your face on the last hurtle. When you fall to your knees crying and feeling as if you have no more life in you.... just think can you give up on yourself as well? Do you want to do to yourself what others are already doing? You can not do what everyone else has done to you time to grab those pieces shove them in your pocket whipe your tear filled face on your sleeve and suck it up and continue to fight no one will knock you out unless you allow them too.. Theres more fight in you that will allow you to get that final knockout instead of them knocking you out.
Having faith that everything you are going through will soon just be a minor set back and soon the sun will shine and everyone whom you expected to help you but didnt or fell short will now see that you are doing just fine and dont need anyone. Helping others at times is like Cancer its deadly moves quickly and is like a oxymoron all at the same time leaving you in a daze of unbelief. Its stated that the most successful people are those whom have a support group but how can you get their without a support group? I think I have the answer....... Believing in yourself and knowing that whatever you put your mind too will become something. Success is where you want to be, and when you reach the top remember how exactly you got there because thats when you will have a huge support group. The world is always out for theirselves. Every man for theirselves and only the hungry survive. With that said if you allow yourself to reach the levels of success that you want and than give in and break down to offer a helping hand to those who could not provide the same for you will drag you right back to your knees with shattered pieces of your heart right next to you. We have to kill them with kindness and act as if what others do to you do not affect you. kill them with kindness act as if your untouchable others may think thats a horrible trait to have but if you let others touch you with dirty hands you can catch something so maybe being untouchable isnt so bad.
At the end of the day its the one who strives sufferes and never gives up who makes it. Its the one that everyone thought was ugly, fat, or not motivated enough who makes it to the top. If its every man for themself and no one wants to help you thats okay do what you have to do to get to where you want to be. Easier said than done but at the end of the day if you cant be happy you arent able to spread your happiness to others who are in the same position as yourself and really need a smile to just let them know everything is going to be okay and they have a friend in you regardless. Maybe thats the support group that you need......
*Keep your head up Swallow your tears & do not give in to your fears everything is going to be alright*
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